More ponders

I was looking out my bedroom window the other night. The night sky was full of stars and the moon was bright and heading toward the full stage. I thought about the universe and all its glory, and wondered what is out there. The it occured to me that WE are out there...We are not down here....we are out there...Someone from another planet would look at the Earth and see it surrounded by sky and stars and the night sky. I get smaller and smaller as I envision this truth. It makes my prayers seem to reach out farther and helps me to know this is all absolutely not an accident...It helps me appreciate life more, and all the things that surround me. The trees, the birds, the earth itself. makes me want to take even better care of this precarious position we are in...Late ta

Excuse me.

I whale killed its trainer yesterday. This whale supposely killed 2 other trainers awhile back. This whale will still be allowed to perform in future shows. What the? Granted whale keep must be very expensive and the loss would set them back a few bucks but sheesh! If a dog bites and maims, its usually put down. They arent called killer whales for nothing....How many have to die before they decide its enough????late ta..

Whatever

Another change in the weather. Its gotten colder again, and dustings of snow on the cars. While I realize we have to be patient, its wearing on the nerves. We long for warm breezes and sweater weather. Grass appearing, and dafodils blooming. I need to get out and do stuff. Im sick of housework and television.Oh well whatever....
Does anyone know, why a lot of todays young people dont date anymore? What happened to two people going out to eat, or a movie, or dancing? What happened to falling in love? It seems that now they date in groups. House parties with drinks and lots of people. How can you fall in love in a group? They date, break up, date breakup..OR....They live together right away, before they even know themselves, let alone someone else, .... I cant believe there should be pregnancys nowadays, unless its on purpose...Ok so Im older and have some traditional ideas, but I think they are missing out. Those wonderful feelings when you first sit alone with a young man, and listen to your favorite songs. That first kiss, and knowing you want to be with this guy again, and again. How can they feel that, if they are always in a group? OH well Whatever....
Why do some girls prefer the bad boys, while the good guys are left behind? Dont they know the bad guys will leave them high and dry, while the good guys are there for them always? Oh well Whatever...
Enough of my pondering for today. Maybe Ill have another thought or two tomorrow. Late ta...

AMAZING SURPRISE ANNIVERSARY..

My children are the most amazing people in the world..In stead of the dinner planned, with just a few, these kids planned for months, a party to end all parties. They all dressed up in period costumes. 60s, 70s, and 80s. They dressed Irv and I in 50s regalia. Pink Poodle skirt,[ hand made by my daughter christy] Pink blouse and neckscarf, huge blonde wig with a bow in front...Think Olivia newton in Grease. Not the image, but the clothes. LOL. I was not skinny to say the least. Irv was put in a black leather jacket and a black ducktail wig...There was a dj, food, cake and tons of fun...All my kids were there, and most of the grandkids and great grandson....Then to top it all off a gift of a July weekend up north at a private cabin on a lake and a boat...!18 holes of golf at a course nearby...Some of the family may try to join us with their campers. This has to be one of the happiest moments in my life. Especially to know that we are so important to all of them. God Bless them all....

Golden

Tomorrow is our 50th golden anniversary.WOW! Who know we would make it this far. Thats a lifetime of love, happiness, fear, anger, joy, children, grandchildren, great grandchild. Christmases, birthdays, deaths, and marriages. A lifetime of growing closer and closer. To knowing that this is the blood that runs in your viens. That this is your soul...I wish that young people could know that it takes a lifetime to nurture a marriage. Its a long journey to understand another human being and love them with or without faults. Some things cant be overlooked, and the marriage must end, but If it is worthwhile, If it is something that can last with a bit of work, then your lives can be so enriched by it. You can finally get to a place that you always wanted to be...A lasting love and friendship thats endures everything.

Did you notice?

Did you notice that temps are starting to warm?
We could see almost 40 today, which means melting snow and getting the car washed. Poor car is full of salt from the trucks whooshing by, and throwing it into the air. I wish I didnt have to drive her in the winter months but I do not have that luxury. My name is Not in People magazine. I am NOT rich and famous....
Sat at the hospital yesterday with My son, while Daughter in law had her surgery. We played cards to pass the time. Her surgery went well and she is back home now to recover...
I bought a couple more things for great grandsons birthday. Im looking forward to going down to Illinois to see him and everyone else. Hes such a delight to be around. Smart, funny, and very loving for a four year old...I sure miss having a baby around...
Tired yet this morning, so off to get another cup of coffee. Have a great day all...Late ta

Ive been thinkin

Why is it that people from the southern states, have a southern accent? When did this start? Why do people from wisconsin talk faster then other states?
Now I can understand, [ sort of] why folks from other countries have their own language. But the difference in people's accents from different states, has me baffeled. Take the word help for instance. It can be Help, or halp, or hep...Depending on where you live...Comeon somebody, enlighten me on this conundrum.....

Valentines Day

So the table is full of cards, and chocolates, and a beautiful Red Velvet cake, all designed to make you feel like its okay to overindulge. After the day is over, you are still left with a few chocolates, and two slices of cake, and the guilt!!!! Dont step on a scale for a few days. Dont try to get into those new size jeans right away....Get back to your excercises and positive thoughts...Take time to rethink your prioritys before you even think about the few pounds you gained on Valentines day.....It sure was a great day...late ta...

Morning

I love quiet mornings. The time before anyone else is around to break the silence. Even the birds are still and traffic is not moving yet. Only me and my thoughts and this Blog.The dining room smells like fresh baked cookies. The reason for that, could be, that I wanted to give something to my family for Valentines day. I love to bake, so the result was containers of cookies for all. Sunday for hubby will be, Roast duck and a black forest heart cake...
The sun will shine again today, and that makes me happy. Cloudy days muddle up my Karma. Odd that. Its like your energy field needs sunshine to be in full force. I cant wait to be able to stroll around the yard, with green grass under my feet and the smells of spring everywhere. When your skin can come out from under all those layers of clothes and breathe again. When Vitamin D from the sun renews your blood with energy. When you can close your eyes and listen to all the sounds in the air. Birds singing their spring lullabys and mating songs. For now though, Ill have to try to love the cold days and snowy roads and crisp air. Yes, even winter has its beauty, with hoar frost on the trees and windows. Glistening like diamonds everywhere. Life and all its wonders. Neat huh?

Anniversarys

Our 50th is coming up real soon and it makes me ponder...All those years put into loving someone and having children with this someone. Happy days and sad days. Money worries and abundance. Then the children leave the nest and the two of you are alone once again. Full circle so to speak. Are you still in love after all those years or just used to each other?
For me its still about love. Enjoying the presense even in the quiet moments. Knowing that you can trust this person with your darkest secrets. Knowing that they will care for you if you fall ill. Holding that warm solid hand and feeling the power of that. Waking up from a nightmare and snuggling up to that warm strong body. The feeling of love and secuity in this 50 year marriage make it all worthwhile. Yes, its all about love....

Forgiveness

Is there someone in your life that you have not forgiven? This could be for slights real or imagined. This could be for things done in anger and rage. Whatever the reasons you hold on to the hate or the hurt, it hurts you more then them. God forgives us every day for things we do that are wrong. He doesnt hold grudges and turn away from us. We are all capable of hurting others in our words or deeds. Perhaps we dont mean to do so, but that still leaves its mark on ones soul. If we can find a way to forgive others, or forgive ourselves, life will be much kinder. It will release us from its hold and set us free. We are all human. We all make mistakes. We all must be forgiving...

New month, new attitude?

Good morning world,
Its February and hopefully that means the temps will warm up a bit. Perhaps some evidence of spring will start to show...Right now its snowing so maybe we have to wait until the groundhog looks for his shadow. Then comes March. Remember when March meant flying kites? When spring breezes blew on your face and gave you spring fever? That wonderful feeling of excitment at things to come. That smell in the air that made you feel young and fanciful? Oh I love those days. It gives you hope that all things renew. That all things have another chance to show their beauty and breathe....Even you and I....Late ta